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Cultivate An Enthusiastic Attitude Toward
Life
The great accomplishments of man have resulted from the
transmission of ideas and enthusiasm," Thomas J. Watson, IBM
founder, once observed. Don't you feel great on days when
you're filled with enthusiasm and brimming with ideas?
Wouldn't it be terrific if you could feel like that most of
the time instead of occasionally?
When you act with enthusiasm not only do you feel great, but
the feeling rubs off on everyone around you. So with that in
mind, here are some ways to generate enthusiasm-both in
yourself and in your coworkers:
Think positive thoughts. Think about the day you have in front
of you as you're getting dressed or commuting. Picture doing
what you like to do best, whether it's working on certain
projects, meeting with certain people, or perhaps it's just a
lunch date you've been looking forward to. Imagining yourself
doing agreeable things during the day will help put you in a
good mood at the day's start.
Welcome challenges. If you know that the day you have in front
of you is going to be a trying one, build your confidence by
replaying some of your successes. How did you feel? What did
you do? What did you say? This mental preparation will help
you stand up to the challenge and make it easier for you to be
positive and enthusiastic.
Make yourself lively and interesting. Put excitement in your
voice! When you greet your coworkers in the morning, speak a
little louder than you usually do. Instead of mumbling a
muffled "good morning" as you shuffle to get your coffee,
stop, look the other person in the eye, and say with a smile,
"Hey Joe, nice to see you. Great morning, isn't it?" Joe will
probably wonder what's gotten into you, but he'll probably
smile and
respond in kind- which brings us to our next point . . .
Make people smile. When you walk into someone's office or work
area with a big smile on your face, the other person smiles
back. They can't help it: A smile is contagious. So try this:
All day today, every time you have to ask someone a question,
just walk into their space and stand there smiling for a few
seconds. Then ask your question and see what kind of response
you get.
Look the part. Put bounce in your step and a gleam in your
eye. Sit erect in your chair as you work. Whistle while you
walk through the hallways (but not so loudly that it disturbs
your coworkers). When people are enthusiastic about something,
they feel and look happy. Let your enthusiasm show.
Share your positive emotions. When you feel good about
something or someone, let it out. For example, you might greet
your coworker on Monday morning by sharing something like,
"I'm really enjoying working on this project with you, Sue.
I'm learning a lot from you. I think our boss is going to be
pleased with the results, too." Sharing positive sentiments
makes two people happy: you and the person you share with.
Take the first steps toward cultivating an enthusiastic
attitude now. Act enthusiastic and soon you won't have to act
anymore. You'll become enthusiastic, and so will everyone you
come in contact with.
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