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FSS Spotlight: Challenges Worth Pursuing
Face your fears. That's how you conquer them. Don't dismiss
them; face them. Say, "Here's what I'm afraid of. I wonder
what I could do to change that."
Exercise your willpower to change direction. You don't have to
keep doing what you've been doing the last 6 years if it's not
yielding the benefits you want. My mentor helped me review the
last six years so I wouldn't repeat those errors the next six.
Pick a new destination and go that way. Use your willpower to
start the process. You don't have to repeat last year. Clean
up the errors. Invest it now in the next year. Watch it make
the difference.
Admit your mistakes. Sometimes you have to admit them to
others. Parents have to do it. We ask our kids do it; we have
to do it. Here's some of the best phrases in the English
language, "I'm sorry." The reason those are good words is
because they could start a whole new relationship. It could
start two people going in a whole new direction. Simple, not
easy. You get this done, the turnaround can be dramatic. The
early years can be big in payoff. Here's the big one. Admit
your mistakes to yourself. You don't have to babble about them
to everyone in the neighborhood. But it doesn't hurt to sit
down and have a conversation with yourself and say, "There's
no use kidding myself. Here's where I really am. I've got
pennies in my pocket and I've got nothing in the bank." That's
what I said after a Girl Scout left my door. I had a
conversation with myself and I said, "I don't want this to
happen anymore."
Refine your goals. Start the process. Set some higher goals.
Reach for some higher purpose. Go for something beyond what
you thought you could do.
Believe in yourself. You've got to believe in the
possibilities. You've got to believe in the economy. You've
got to believe that tomorrow can be better than today. Here's
the big one. Believe in yourself. There isn't a skill you
can't learn; there isn't a discipline you can't try; there
isn't a class you can't take; there isn't a book you couldn't
read.
Ask for wisdom. This is communication of the highest source.
Ask for wisdom that creates answers. Ask for the wisdom that
creates faith to believe things are possible. Ask for wisdom
to deal with the challenges for today and tomorrow, to deal
with the challenges your family brings you. Don't wish it was
easier; wish you were better.
Conserve your time. Sometimes we get faked out. Bill Bailey
says the average person says, "I've got twenty more years."
No, Bill says you've got twenty more times. If you go fishing
once a year, you've only got twenty more times to go fishing,
not twenty years. That fakes you out.
Invest your profits. Here's one of the philosophies that Mr.
Shoaff gave me. Profits are better than wages. Wages make you
a living, profits make you a fortune. Could we start earning
profits while we make a living? The answer is yes.
Protect your family. These are troublesome times. At
school--troublesome times. Protect your family as best you can
from the hidden dangers, the lurking evil one.
Live with intensity. You might as well turn it up a notch or
two. Invest more of you in whatever you do. Be a little
stronger; be a little wiser. Step up your vitality
contribution. Put everything you've got into everything you do
and then ask for more vitality, more strength and more vigor,
more heart and more soul.
Find your place. If you just work on a job, find the best
place you can serve well, and sure enough they'll ask you to
occupy a better place. And if you keep doing a job well, do
the very best you can. That's your best way out. Here's a
Bible phrase. If you work on your gifts, they'll make a place
for you.
Demand integrity from yourself. Integrity is like loyalty. You
can't demand it of someone else; you can only demand it of
yourself. Be the best example of loyalty, and you'll get some
loyal followers. Be the best example of integrity, and you'll
have people around you who have integrity. Lead the way.
Welcome the disciplines. Can't give you much better advice
than that because disciplines create the reality. Disciplines
build cities. A well-disciplined activity creates abundance,
creates uniqueness, productivity.
Fight for what's right. It's a fight we're in. The
story-teller says "And there was great war in heaven." One of
the writers of later scripture said, "I fought a good fight."
That's extraordinary to be able to say. I fought for my kids,
and I fought for what was right and I fought for good health,
and I fought to protect my company and I fought for a good
career that would bless my family. I fought a good fight. It's
good to fight the encroachment. Opposites are in conflict, and
you're in the middle. If you want something valuable, you've
got to fight for it. Then this writer also said, "I fought a
good fight and I kept the faith." See, that's the deal. Keep
faith with your family. Fight the enemy and keep faith. Fight
the illness and keep faith. Fight the evil and keep faith. I
can't give you much better advice.
Jim Rohn
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