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FACING THE ENEMIES WITHIN
by Jim Rohn
We are not born with courage, but neither are we born with
fear. Maybe some
of our fears are brought on by your own experiences, by what
someone has
told you, by what you've read in the papers. Some fears are
valid, like
walking alone in a bad part of town at two o'clock in the
morning. But once
you learn to avoid that situation, you won't need to live in
fear of it.
Fears, even the most basic ones, can totally destroy our
ambitions. Fear
can destroy fortunes. Fear can destroy relationships. Fear, if
left
unchecked, can destroy our lives. Fear is one of the many
enemies lurking
inside us.
Let me tell you about five of the other enemies we face from
within. The
first enemy that you've got to destroy before it destroys you
is
indifference. What a tragic disease this is. "Ho-hum, let it
slide. I'll
just drift along." Here's one problem with drifting: you can't
drift your
way to the top of the mountain.
The second enemy we face is indecision. Indecision is the
thief of
opportunity and enterprise. It will steal your chances for a
better future.
Take a sword to this enemy.
The third enemy inside is doubt. Sure, there's room for
healthy skepticism.
You can't believe everything. But you also can't let doubt
take over. Many
people doubt the past, doubt the future, doubt each other,
doubt the
government, doubt the possibilities and doubt the
opportunities. Worse of
all, they doubt themselves. I'm telling you, doubt will
destroy your life
and your chances of success. It will empty both your bank
account and your
heart. Doubt is an enemy Go after it. Get rid of it.
The fourth enemy within is worry. We've all got to worry some.
Just don't
let it conquer you. Instead, let it alarm you. Worry can be
useful. If you
step off the curb in New York City and a taxi is coming,
you've got to
worry. But you can't let worry loose like a mad dog that
drives you into a
small corner. Here's what you've got to do with your worries:
drive them
into a small corner. Whatever is out to get you, you've got to
get it.
Whatever is pushing on you, you've got to push back.
The fifth interior enemy is over-caution. It is the timid
approach to life.
Timidity is not a virtue; it's an illness. If you let it go,
it'll conquer
you. Timid people don't get promoted. They don't advance and
grow and
become powerful in the marketplace. You've got to avoid
over-caution.
Do battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears. Build
your courage to
fight what's holding you back, what's keeping you from your
goals and
dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the
things you
want and the person you want to become.
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