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FSS Spotlight: Get SMART on Goals Setting in 2008
As we enter into this New Year we all tend to have a heightened sense of the
opportunities and possibilities that 2008 can bring. The need for goal-setting
becomes more obvious and clear. And the great thing about goal-setting is you can
keep it as simple or get as elaborate as you would like.
I've often said the major reason for setting a goal is for what it makes of you to
accomplish it. What it makes of you will always be the far greater value than what you get.
That is why goals are so powerful - they are part of the fabric that makes up our lives. And
goal-setting is where we create our goals.
Goal-setting is powerful, partly because it provides focus. It shapes our dreams. It gives us the
ability to hone in on the exact actions we need to perform to achieve everything we desire
in life. Goals are GREAT because they cause us to stretch and grow in ways that we never
have before. In order to reach our goals we must become better. We must change and grow.
Also, goals provide long-term vision in our lives. We all need lots of powerful, long-range
goals to help us get past short-term obstacles. Life is designed in such a way that we
look long-term and live short-term. We dream for the future and live in the present.
Unfortunately, the present can produce many difficult obstacles. But fortunately, the
more powerful our goals (because they are inspiring and believable) the more we will be
able to act on them in the short-term and guarantee that they will actually come to pass!
What are the key aspects to learn and remember when studying and writing our goals?
1. Evaluation and Reflection. The only way we can reasonably decide what we want in the future
and how we will get there is to first know where we are right now and what our level of
satisfaction is for where we are in life. So first take some time and think through and
write down your current situation, then ask this question on each key point - is that okay?
The purpose of evaluation is two-fold. First, it gives you an objective way to look
at your accomplishments and your pursuit of the vision you have for your life. Secondly,
it is to show you where you are so you can determine where you need to go. In other words,
it gives you a baseline from which to work.
I would strongly encourage you to take a couple of hours this week to evaluate and reflect. At
the beginning of this month we encourage you to see where you are and write it down so that
as the months progress and you continue a regular time of evaluation and reflection, you will
see just how much ground you will be gaining - and that will be exciting!
2. What are Your Dreams and Goals? These are the dreams and goals that are born out of your own
heart and mind. These are the goals that are unique to you and come from who you were
created to be and gifted to become. So second, make a list of all the things you desire for
the future.
One of the amazing things we have been given as humans is the unquenchable desire to have dreams
of a better life, and the ability to establish goals to live out those dreams. Think of it:
We can look deep within our hearts and dream of a better situation for ourselves and our families;
dream of better financial lives and better emotional or physical lives; certainly dream of better
spiritual lives. But what makes this even more powerful is that we have also been given the ability
to not only dream but to pursue those dreams and not just pursue them, but the cognitive ability
to actually lay out a plan and strategies (setting goals) to achieve those dreams. Powerful!
Have you ever really sat down and thought through your life values and decided what you really want?
Have you ever taken the time to truly reflect, to listen quietly to your heart, to see what
dreams live within you? Your dreams are there. Everyone has them. They may live right on the
surface, or they may be buried deep from years of others telling you they were foolish,
but they are there.
So how do we know what our dreams are? This is an interesting process and it relates primarily to the
art of listening. This is not listening to others; it is listening to yourself. If we listen
to others, we hear their plans and dreams (and many will try to put their plans and dreams on
us). If we listen to others, we can never be fulfilled. We will only chase elusive dreams
that are not rooted deep within us. No, we must listen to our own hearts.
Take time to be quiet. This is something that we don't do enough in this busy world of ours. We rush,
rush, rush, and we are constantly listening to noise all around us. The human heart was
meant for times of quiet, to peer deep within. It is when we do this that our hearts are set
free to soar and take flight on the wings of our own dreams! Schedule some quiet "dream time"
this week. No other people. No cell phone. No computer. Just you, a pad, a pen, and your
thoughts.
Think about what really thrills you. When you are quiet, think about those things that really get your
blood moving. What would you LOVE to do, either for fun or for a living? What would you
love to accomplish? What would you try if you were guaranteed to succeed? What big thoughts
move your heart into a state of excitement and joy? When you answer these questions you will feel
GREAT and you will be in the "dream zone." It is only when we get to this point that we experience
what OUR dreams are!
Write down all of your dreams as you have them. Don't think of any as too outlandish or foolish - remember,
you're dreaming! Let the thoughts fly and take careful record.
Now, prioritize those dreams. Which are most important? Which are most feasible?
3. S.M.A.R.T. Goals. S.M.A.R.T. means Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-sensitive.
I really like this acronym S.M.A.R.T., because we want to be smart when we set our goals. We want to
intelligently decide what our goals will be so that we can actually accomplish them. We want
to set the goals that our heart conceives, our minds believe and that our bodies will carry out.
Let's take a closer look at each of the components of S.M.A.R.T. goals:
Specific: Goals are no place to waffle. They are no place to be vague. Ambiguous goals produce ambiguous results.
Incomplete goals produce incomplete futures.
Measurable: Always set goals that are measurable. I would say "specifically measurable" to take into account our
principle of being specific as well.
Attainable: One of the detrimental things that many people do - and they do it with good intentions - is to set goals that are so high they are unattainable.
Realistic: The root word of realistic is "real." A goal has to be something that we can reasonably make "real" or
a "reality" in our lives. There are some goals that simply are not realistic. You have to
be able to say, even if it is a tremendously stretching goal, that yes, indeed, it is
entirely realistic -- that you could make it. You may even have to say that it will take
x, y, and z to do it, but if those happen, then it can be done. This is in no way to say
it shouldn't be a big goal, but it must be realistic.
Time: Every goal should have a time frame attached to it. I think that life itself is much more
productive if there is a time frame connected to it. Could you imagine how much
procrastination there would be on earth if people never died? We would never get "around
to it." We could always put it off. One of the powerful aspects of a great goal is that it
has an end, a time in which you are shooting to accomplish it. You start working on it because
you know there is an end. As time goes by you work on it because you don't want to get behind.
As it approaches, you work diligently because you want to meet the deadline. You may even have
to break down a big goal into different parts of measurement and time frames. That is okay.
Set smaller goals and work them out in their own time. A S.M.A.R.T. goal has a timeline.
4. Accountability (A contract with yourself or someone else). When someone knows what your goals are,
they hold you accountable by asking you to "give an account" of where you are in the process
of achieving that goal. Accountability puts some teeth into the process. If a goal is set
and only one person knows it, does it really have any power? Many times, no. At the very
least, it isn't as powerful as if you have one or more other people who can hold you
accountable to your goal.
So: Evaluate/Reflect; Decide What You Want; Be S.M.A.R.T.; Have Accountability. When you put these
4 key pieces together, you are putting yourself in a position of power that will catapult
you toward achieving your goals.
Let's Do Something Remarkable in 2008!
Jim Rohn
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