FSS Newsletter :: June 2003
FSS Spotlight :: The Formula for Success and Failure
by Jim Rohn
Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event. We do not fail
overnight. Failure is the inevitable result of an accumulation
of poor thinking and poor choices. To put it more simply,
failure is nothing more than a few errors in judgment repeated
every day. Now why would someone make an error in judgment
and then be so foolish as to repeat it every day? The answer
is because he or she does not think that it matters.
On their
own, our daily acts do not seem that important. A minor
oversight, a poor decision, or a wasted hour generally
doesn't result in an instant and measurable impact. More
often than not, we escape from any immediate consequences
of our deeds. If we have not bothered to read a single
book in the past ninety days, this lack of discipline does
not
seem to have any immediate impact on our lives. And since
nothing drastic happened to us after the first ninety days,
we repeat this error in judgment for another ninety days,
and on and on it goes. Why? Because it doesn't seem to
matter. And herein lies the great danger. Far worse than
not reading
the books is not even realizing that it matters!
Those
who eat too many of the wrong foods are contributing to
a future
health problem, but the joy of the moment overshadows
the consequence of the future. It does not seem to matter.
Those who smoke too much or drink too much go on making
these poor choices year after year after year... because
it doesn't
seem to matter. But the pain and regret of these errors
in judgment have only been delayed for a future time.
Consequences are seldom instant; instead, they accumulate
until the
inevitable
day of reckoning finally arrives and the price must be
paid for our poor choices - choices that didn't seem
to matter.
Failure's most dangerous attribute is its subtlety.
In the short term those little errors don't seem to make
any difference.
We do not seem to be failing. In fact, sometimes these
accumulated errors in judgment occur throughout a period
of great joy
and prosperity in our lives. Since nothing terrible
happens to us, since there are no instant consequences to
capture
our attention, we simply drift from one day to the
next, repeating the errors, thinking the wrong thoughts,
listening
to the wrong voices and making the wrong choices. The
sky did not fall in on us yesterday; therefore the
act was
probably harmless. Since it seemed to have no measurable
consequence,
it is probably safe to repeat. But we must become better
educated than that!
If at the end of the day when we
made our first error in judgment the sky had fallen in
on us, we undoubtedly
would
have taken immediate steps to ensure that the act
would never be repeated again. Like the child who places
his hand on
a hot burner despite his parents' warnings, we would
have had an instantaneous experience accompanying
our error
in judgment.
Unfortunately, failure does not shout
out its warnings as our parents once did. This is why it
is imperative
to refine
our philosophy in order to be able to make better
choices. With a powerful, personal philosophy guiding
our every
step, we become more aware of our errors in judgment
and more aware
that each error really does matter.
Now here is
the great news. Just like the formula for failure, the
formula for success is easy to
follow: It's a few simple
disciplines practiced every day.
Now here is an interesting question worth pondering:
How can we change the errors in the formula for
failure into
the disciplines required in the formula for success?
The answer is by making the future an important
part of our
current philosophy.
Both success and failure
involve future consequences, namely the inevitable rewards
or unavoidable
regrets resulting
from past activities. If this is true, why
don't more people take
time to ponder the future? The answer is simple:
They are so caught up in the current moment
that it doesn't
seem
to matter. The problems and the rewards of
today are so absorbing
to some human beings that they never pause
long enough to think about tomorrow.
But what if we did develop
a new discipline to take just a few minutes every day to
look
a little
further
down
the road? We would then be able to foresee
the impending consequences
of our current conduct. Armed with that valuable
information, we would be able to take the
necessary action to change
our errors into new success-oriented disciplines.
In other words,
by disciplining ourselves to see the future
in advance, we would be able to change our
thinking,
amend our
errors and
develop new habits to replace the old.
One
of the exciting things about the formula for success -
a few simple disciplines practiced
every
day - is
that the results are almost immediate.
As we voluntarily change
daily errors into daily disciplines, we
experience positive results in a very short period of
time. When we change
our diet, our health improves noticeably
in just a few weeks.
When we start exercising, we feel a new
vitality almost immediately. When we begin reading,
we experience a
growing awareness
and a new level of self-confidence. Whatever
new discipline we begin to practice daily
will produce
exciting results
that will drive us to become even better
at developing new disciplines.
The real
magic of new disciplines is that they will cause us to
amend our thinking.
If we
were to start
today to
read the books, keep a journal, attend
the classes, listen more
and observe more, then today would be
the first day of a new life leading to a better
future.
If we were
to
start today to try harder, and in every
way make a conscious and
consistent effort to change subtle and
deadly errors into
constructive and rewarding disciplines,
we would never again settle for a life
of existence
-
not once we
have tasted
the fruits of a life of substance!
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