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7 S-E-C-R-E-T-S to a Great Life!
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7 S-E-C-R-E-T-S to a Great Life!
by Kathy Gates
A great life doesn’t happen by accident. A great life is the
result of allocating your time, energy, thoughts, and hard
work towards what you want your life to be. Stop setting
yourself up for stress and failure, and start setting up your
life to support success and ease. A great life is the result
of using the 24/7 you get in a creative and thoughtful way,
instead of just what comes next. Customize these “secrets” to
fit your own needs and style, and start creating your own
great life today!
- S – Simplify. A great life is the result of simplifying
your life. People often misinterpret what simplify means.
It’s not a way to remove work from your life. When you focus
on simplifying your life, you free up energy and time for
the work that you enjoy and the purpose for which you are
here. In order to create a great life, you will have to make
room for it in yours first.
- E – Effort. A great life is the result of your best
effort. Creating a great life requires that you make some
adjustments. It may mean re-evaluating how you spend your
time, or choosing to spend your money in a different way. It
may mean looking for new ways to spend your energy that
coincide with your particular definition of a great life.
Life will reward your best effort.
- C – Create Priorities. A great life is the result of
creating priorities. It’s easy to spend your days just
responding to the next thing that gets your attention,
instead of intentionally using the time, energy and money
you have in a way that’s important to you. Focus on removing
the obstacles that get in the way of you making sure you are
honoring your priorities.
- R – Reserves. A great life is the result of having
reserves – reserves of things, time, space, energy, money,
love. Simplify first in order to find a reserve, then build
on that. For example, in order to find a reserve of time,
first simplify by delegating a task to someone else, or
simply dumping the task if it’s no longer important. With
reserves, you are able to live your life looking forward
instead of always digging yourself out of a hole.
- E – Eliminate distractions. A great life is the result
of eliminating distractions. Up to 75% of your mental energy
can be tied up in things that are draining and distracting
you. Eliminating distractions can be a difficult concept to
many people, since they haven’t really considered that there
is another way to live. Look around at someone’s life that
you admire. What do they do that you would like to
incorporate into your own life? Ask them how they did it.
Find ways to free up your mental energy for things that are
more important to you.
- T – Thoughts. A great life is the result of controlling
your thoughts so that you accept and allow for the
possibility that it actually can happen to you! Your belief
in the outcome will directly dictate how successful you are.
Motivated people have specific goals and look for ways to
achieve them. Believing there is a solution to the same old
problems you encounter year after year is vitally important
to creating a life that you love. Whatever you think and
believe, you create. Listen to what you’re telling yourself,
and adjust that voice if you need to.
- S – Start! A great life is the result of starting.
There’s the old saying everyone’s familiar with “a journey
of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” In order to
even move from the couch to the refrigerator, you have to
start. There’s no better time to start than today. Don’t
wait for a raise, or until the kids get older, or the
weather is better. Today, right now, is the right day to
start to take a step in the direction of your heart’s
desires. It’s what you do TODAY that will make a difference
in your life tomorrow. So what are you waiting for? Get
Going, you’ve got the green light!
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