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March 2006
Issue Home
Employment Source Job Fair April 5th
Leaving a Job With Class When You Know It’s Over
Things We Can Learn From a Child
Dr. Phil’s Advice Regarding Adjusting to
Parenthood
How Can I Improve My Financial Situation Without
Earning More Money?
FSS Spotlight:
FSS Trivia
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The Secrets to Being Lucky
Because of the Irish & St. Patrick’s Day, the month of March
has typically been associated with luck.
Why do some people seem to have all the luck? They're always
in the right place at the right time. Their businesses
prosper. They get one fantastic promotion after another. In
short: they enjoy phenomenal success. What explains it? Are
they doing something special, or is good fortune selecting
them by chance?
For a moment, let's put aside winning the lottery -which seems
to be a random type of luck -and instead focus on those who
consistently achieve extraordinary results in their lives.
Often, we attribute their accomplishments to random luck.
However, after studying the lives of these people, I've
discovered that there's more to it than that. Indeed, these
people seem to benefit from something I'll call created luck."
People who create their own luck have certain traits in
common. Here, then, are the secrets for deliberately
bringing luck into your life.…
- Be proactive. Show me a consistently lucky person
and I'll show you someone who doesn't sit back waiting for
good fortune to pay a visit. Indeed, lucky people put
themselves in a position to win by continually taking action
in pursuit of their goals.
- Have a dynamic, positive attitude. It has been
proven that we attract what we think about most. People who
get the breaks believe in themselves and in their abilities.
They picture themselves reaching their goals and are secure
in the knowledge that they'll master any and all challenges
that come their way. To become a magnet for exceptional
achievements, there-fore, maintain a confident outlook and
concentrate on success!
- Possess a burning desire. Aside from being
positive, lucky people are passionate about achieving their
goals. They're always on the lookout to seize an
opportunity, and you can bet they'll bring enthusiasm and
energy to the quest.
- Be prepared. Earl Nightingale said it superbly:
if you are not prepared for your opportunity when it comes,
the opportunity will only make you look silly. Lucky people
are mentally, physically and emotionally ready to perform at
their maximum. They are learners and hard workers. whatever
activity they are engaged in, you'll find them reading,
practicing and picking the brains of successful people in
that field. And they realize that the preparation must be
done before the fantastic opportunity presents itself. Pro
football quarterback Jeff Hostetler, formerly with the NY
Giants, sat on the bench for seven years as a back-up,
seldom playing at all. But when starting quarterback Phil
Simms was injured late in the 1990 season, Hostetler stepped
in and led the team to a string of victories, including a
triumph in the Super Bowl! Hostetler didn't know in advance
when his time would come, but he kept himself mentally and
physically fit and was therefore able to take full advantage
of his big chance.
- Display incredible persistence and a long-term
perspective. Most people want a lucky break and they
want it NOW! If only success were that easy! Examine the
lives of highly accomplished people and you'll find that
virtually each one overcame years of frustration and
setbacks. In any profession. the few who refuse to quit when
success is nowhere on he horizon are the ones who eventually
achieve the "impossible."
- Pay your dues. Lucky individuals are willing to
start small and work their way up. For instance, in high
school , Michael Jordan wasn't the world's best basketball
player. Likewise, Oprah Winfrey didn't begin her career as
host of her own national television show. They developed
their skills over time and earned the right to capitalize on
their opportunities.
- Create crystal clear objectives. Clarity is
power. Lucky people know what they want to accomplish and
can visualize the end result in vivid detail. They are
motivated by an exciting picture that they seek to bring
into reality. You just don't get very far with a vague
notion that you want to be "happy" or "successful."
- Demonstrate flexibility. Let's face it, no matter
how well prepared you are, you can never anticipate all the
setbacks and detours you'll encounter. Lucky people monitor
their progress and make adjustments when appropriate. When a
particular strategy isn't working, they don't complain or
curse their bad luck; they just make a change. In addition,
they are extremely open - and able to take advantage of -
new opportunities which may arise as they pursue their
original goal.
- Be a risk-taker. This isn't about foolish,
unprepared gambles. However, phenomenal, ground-breaking
success is usually reserved for those who will venture into
unknown territory. In the end, successful people make their
own luck. George Bernard Shaw may have said it best: "The
people who get on in this world are the people who get up
and look for the circumstances they want and, if they can't
find them, make them."
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