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SEVEN "S-E-C-R-E-T-S" TO A GREAT LIFE
by Kathy Gates
A great life doesn't happen by accident. A great life is the
result of allocating your time, energy, thoughts, and hard
work towards what you want your life to be. Stop setting
yourself up for stress and failure, and start setting up your
life to support success and ease. A great life is the result
of using the 24/7 you get in a creative and thoughtful way,
instead of just what comes next. Customize these "secrets" to
fit your own needs
and style, and start creating your own great life today!
1. S - Simplify. A great life is the result of simplifying
your life. People often misinterpret what simplify means. It's
not a way to remove work from your life. When you focus on
simplifying your life, you free up energy and time for the
work that you enjoy and the purpose for which you are here. In
order to create a great life, you will have to make room for
it in yours first.
2. E - Effort. A great life is the result of your best effort.
Creating a great life requires that you make some adjustments.
It may mean re-evaluating how you spend your time, or choosing
to spend your money in a different way. It may mean looking
for new ways to spend your energy that coincide with your
particular definition of a great life. Life will reward your
best effort.
3. C - Create Priorities. A great life is the result of
creating priorities. It's easy to spend your days just
responding to the next thing that gets your attention, instead
of intentionally using the time, energy and money you have in
a way that's important to you. Focus on removing the obstacles
that get in the way of you making sure you are honoring your
priorities.
4. R - Reserves. A great life is the result of having reserves
- reserves of things, time, space, energy, money, love.
Simplify first in order to find a reserve, then build on that.
For example, in order to find a reserve of time, first
simplify by delegating a task to someone else, or simply
dumping the task if it's no longer important. With reserves,
you are able to live your life looking forward instead of
always digging yourself out of
a hole.
5. E - Eliminate distractions. A great life is the result of
eliminating distractions. Up to 75% of your mental energy can
be tied up in things that are draining and distracting you.
Eliminating distractions can be a difficult concept to many
people, since they haven't really considered that there is
another way to live. Look around at someone's life that you
admire. What do they do that you would like to incorporate
into your own life? Ask them how they did it. Find ways to
free up your mental energy for things that are more important
to you.
6. T - Thoughts. A great life is the result of controlling
your thoughts so that you accept and allow for the possibility
that it actually can happen to you! Your belief in the outcome
will directly dictate how successful you are. Motivated people
have specific goals and look for ways to achieve them.
Believing there is a solution to the same old problems you
encounter year after year is vitally important to creating a
life that you love. Whatever you think and believe, you
create. Listen to what you're telling yourself, and adjust
that voice if you need to.
7. S - Start! A great life is the result of starting. There's
the old saying everyone's familiar with "a journey of a
thousand miles begins with a single step." In order to even
move from the couch to the refrigerator, you have to start.
There's no better time to start than today. Don't wait for a
raise, or until the kids get older, or the weather is better.
Today,
right now, is the right day to start to take a step in the
direction of your heart's desires. It's what you do TODAY that
will make a difference in your life tomorrow.
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