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FSS Spotlight: Take The Challenge to
Succeed
It is a challenge to succeed. If it were not, I'm sure more
people would be successful, but for every person who is
enjoying the fruit from the tree of success, many more are
examining the roots. They are trying to figure it all out.
They are mystified and perplexed by what seems to be some
strange, complex and elusive secret that must be found if ever
success is to be enjoyed. While most people spend most of
their lives struggling to earn a living, a much smaller number
seem to have everything going their way. Instead of just
earning a living, the smaller group is busily engaged in
designing and enjoying a fortune. Everything just seems to
work out for them. While the much larger group sits in awe at
how life can be so unfair, complicated and unjust.
"I am a nice person," the man says to himself. "How come this
other guy is happy and prosperous, and I'm always struggling?"
He asks himself, "I am a good husband, a good father and a
good worker. How come nothing seems to work out for me? Life
just isn't fair. I'm even smarter and willing to work harder
than some of these other people who just seem to have
everything going their way," he says as he slumps into the
sofa to watch another evening of television. But you see
you've got to be more than a good person and a good worker.
You've got to become a good planner, and a good dreamer.
You've got to see the future finished in advance.
You've got to put in the long hours and put up with the
setbacks and the disappointments. You've got to learn to enjoy
the process of disciplines and of putting yourself through the
paces of doing the uncomfortable until it becomes comfortable.
You've got to be prepared and willing to attack the challenges
if you want the success because challenges are part of
success. Now that may sound like a full menu of activities,
but let me assure you that the process of going from average
to fortune isn't really all that difficult. Thinking about it
is the difficult part. Anticipating all the effort and the
changes and the disciplines is far worse in the mind than in
reality. I can promise you that the challenges you'll meet on
the road to success are far less difficult to deal with than
the struggles and the disappointments that come from being
average. Confronting and overcoming challenges is an
exhilarating experience. It does something to feed the soul
and the mind. It makes you more than you were before. It
strengthens the mental muscles and enables you to become
better prepared for the next challenge.
I've often said that to have more, we must first become more,
and to become more, we must begin the process of working
harder on ourselves than we do on anything else. But in
addition to gathering new knowledge, new skills and new
experiences; it is also important to discover new emotions. It
is how we feel about what we know that makes the biggest
difference in how our lives turn out. How we feel about the
chances we have and the choices we have determines the
intensity of our effort. Whether we try or don't try. Join or
don't join. Believe or don't believe.
I'd like for you to discover some strong feelings about your
life and about what you want to do with that life. You
probably have much of the knowledge and a lot of the
experience and perhaps most of the skills that it takes to
become successful. What you may be lacking in are the strong
feelings about what you want and what you want to do. You may
be one of those who have become so involved in the process of
earning a living that you've forgotten about the choices and
the chances you have for designing your own life.
Let these strong feelings help you take a second look at your
life and where you're headed. After all, you've only got one
life, at least on this planet. So why not make it an adventure
in achievement? Why not discover what all you can do and what
all you can have? Why not discover how many others you can
help and in the process how that can help you?
Why not now take the Challenge to Succeed!
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