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Dr. Phil’s Formula For Success
The winners in life know the rules of the game and have a
plan. Whether you're looking to heal a relationship, get a new
job, lose weight or find inner peace, consider these
characteristics which Dr. Phil says are common to people who
succeed.
Have a vision.
Champions get what they want because they know what they
want. They have a vision that keeps them motivated and
efficiently on track. They see it, feel it, and experience it
in their minds and hearts. What is success for you? You won't
get there without knowing what it feels and looks like.
Make a strategy.
People who consistently win have a clear and thoughtful
strategy. They know what they need to do and when they need to
do it. They write it down so they stay on course, and avoid
any alternative that does not get them closer to the finish
line.
Find a passion.
Are you excited to get up in the morning? People with a
passion are, and they're energized about what they are doing.
You need to live and breathe what it is that you want, and be
passionately invested in both the journey and the goal.
Live the truth.
People who consistently win have no room in their lives
for denial, fantasy or fiction. They are self-critical rather
than self-deluding, and they hold themselves to high but
realistic standards. They deal with the truth, since they
recognize that nothing else will make their vision obtainable.
Be flexible.
Life is not a success-only journey. Even the best-laid plans
sometimes must be altered and changed. Be open to input and
consider any potentially viable alternative. Be willing to be
wrong and be willing to start over.
Take risks.
People who consistently win are willing to get out of their
comfort zone and try new things. Be willing to plunge into the
unknown if necessary, and leave behind the safe,
unchallenging, and familiar existence in order to have more.
Create a strong nucleus.
Surround yourself with a group of people who want you to
succeed. They will move with you toward your goal. Choose and
bond with people who have skills, talents and abilities that
you do not. Winners give and receive by being part of other
people's nuclear groups.
Take action.
Do it! People who succeed don't just sit and think about what
they want to do. They take meaningful, purposeful, directional
action consistently and persistently. Every step they take
puts them toward the outcome they're looking for.
Set priorities.
People who are consistent winners manage their challenges in
hierarchical fashion. They commit to managing their time in
such a way that does not allow them to spend time grinding
along on priority number two or three if priority number one
needs their attention.
Take care of yourself.
People who consistently win are consciously committed to
self-management. They are the most important resource they
have in achieving their goals. They actively manage their
mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health.
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