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Six Not-So-Extreme Makeovers That Could
Land the Job
Everyone has things about themselves they wish were different.
Whether it's a ho-hum wardrobe or unruly hair, these things
can affect how we feel about ourselves, which impacts the
image we project to others. These insecurities can zap our
confidence and, depending on the depth of our dislike, lead to
career disaster.
Here are some fix-it ideas for the most common image problems:
Makeover Tip #1: Take control of your mane.
For women, stylish hair is likely to be one of the first
things people notice about you. A striking hair cut that
compliments the shape of your face combined with a color that
compliments your skin tone and eye color is essential. The
same is true for men. A spokeswoman for Frank Gironda Salon
and Spas in Chicago's western suburbs notes "We have clients,
men and women, who come to us looking for a more professional
style. A lot of people have been wearing their hair the same
way for years. An updated
style, a color treatment or highlights to cover or soften new
grey, gives them the fresh and polished look they're seeking."
Makeover Tip #2: Add color to your voice.
Renee Grant-Williams is a professional voice coach and author
of Voice Power, Using your Voice to Captivate, Persuade and
Command Attention. Her clientele includes top stars like the
Dixie Chicks, Faith Hill, Christina Aguilera and Tim McGraw.
But she also works with attorneys, public speakers and
politicians to improve their vocal skills. "One of my clients
was a mid-level executive who had been out of work for 17
months. He had great qualifications, but in interview feedback
he was told he lacked presence and seemed timid." She's
helping him put more color and drama into his voice by using
variations in pitch, speed and stronger consonants.
"Consonants are very arresting and when elongated at the
beginning of key words can add color and great emphasis to you
what you have to say."
Makeover Tip #3: Clothes make the man . . . and woman.
Grant-Williams' same "timid" client walked into her office the
first day with light brown hair, pale green eyes, khaki pants
and a beige shirt. "Everything about him seemed quiet and
somewhat bland. We've suggested he change his clothing to
darker, more dramatic colors to increase his physical
presence." Joyce Heiss, a human resources consultant for
Sikich HR Solutions based in Aurora, Ill. adds, "A
professional and well-tailored wardrobe makes a huge
difference when making a first impression. Updating
your wardrobe can help mask all of the other areas where you
may be deficient."
Makeover Tip #4: Polish your presentation skills.
"Presentation skills are essential for anyone," notes John
Connellan, Founder and President of The Executive Technique in
Chicago, which helps managers and top-level executives improve
their presentation and communication skills. "Whether you're
asking for a loan at the bank or addressing your colleagues in
a staff meeting, you must be yourself and let your personal
style shine through. People want to see the real you, not an
actor." The Executive Technique provides customized solutions
to improve
communication style and delivery. For more information see
their website at
www.executivetechnique.com.
Makeover Tip #5: Words - Use 'em but don't abuse 'em.
An often-overlooked area of speech that can be quite annoying
to listeners is the overuse of words and phrases such as
"like" or "you know." Even the best communicators can fall
into the bad habit of wearing out these words, especially if
they have school-aged children at home. In addition to
sounding immature, overused words and phrases are wasted words
that take the focus off what you are really trying to say. To
purge these throw-away words from your speech, keep a stroke
count each time you say the word, in a matter of days you'll
have kicked the habit.
Makeover Tip #6: Improve your people management skills.
The ability to manage people is an essential skill in today's
work world. Lea, an inside sales manager on the East Coast,
recently participated in her company's feedback program for
supervisors and managers. She says, "The feedback I received
from my
employees, co-workers and my supervisor on my skills and
abilities related to people management really helped me
identify areas in which I excel -- and where I need
improvement." Working with the program leader, she's learning
how to identify and relate to different types of personalities
in a way that is motivating and inspiring. Lea and other
managers at her company are now reading the book, Type Talk at
Work -- How the 16 Personality Types Determine Your Success on
the Job by Janet M. Thuesen.
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