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End Procrastination In Two Easy Steps
Perseverance is about as important to achievement as gasoline
is to driving a car. Sure, there will be times when you feel
like you're spinning your wheels, but you'll always get out of
the rut with genuine perseverance. Without it, you won't even
be able to start your engine.
The opposite of perseverance is procrastination. Perseverance
means you never quit. Procrastination usually means you never
get started, although the inability to finish something is
also a form of procrastination.
Ask people why they procrastinate and you'll often hear
something like this: "I'm a perfectionist. Everything has to
be just right before I can get down to work. No distractions,
not too much noise, no telephone calls interrupting me, and of
course I have to be feeling well physically, too. I can't work
when I have a headache." The other end of procrastination -
being unable to finish - also has a perfectionist explanation:
"I'm just never satisfied. I'm my own harshest critic. If all
the i's aren't dotted and all the t's aren't crossed, I just
can't consider that I'm done. That's just the way I am, and
I'll probably never change."
Do you see what's going on here? A fault is being turned into
a virtue. The perfectionist is saying that his standards are
just too high for this world. This fault-into-virtue syndrome
is a common defense when people are called upon to discuss
their weaknesses, but in the end it's just a very pious kind
of excuse making. It certainly doesn't have anything to do
with what's really behind procrastination.
Remember, the basis of procrastination could be fear of
failure. That's what perfectionism really is, once you take a
hard look at it. What's the difference whether you're afraid
of being less than perfect or afraid of anything else? You're
still paralyzed by fear. What's the difference whether you
never start or never finish? You're still stuck. You're still
going nowhere. You're still overwhelmed by whatever task is
before you. You’re still allowing yourself to be dominated by
a negative vision of the future in which you see yourself
being criticized, laughed at, punished, or ridden out of town
on a rail. Of course, this negative vision of the future is
really a mechanism that allows you to do nothing. It's a very
convenient mental tool.
I'm going to tell you how to overcome procrastination. I'm
going to show you how to turn procrastination into
perseverance, and if you do what I suggest, the process will
be virtually painless. It involves using two very powerful
principles that foster productivity and perseverance instead
of passivity and procrastination.
The first principle is: break it down.
No matter what you're trying to accomplish, whether it's
writing a book, climbing a mountain, or painting a house the
key to achievement is your ability to break down the task into
manageable pieces and knock them off one at one time. Focus on
accomplishing what's right in front of you at this moment.
Ignore what's off in the distance someplace. Substitute
real-time positive thinking for negative future visualization.
That's the first all-important technique for bringing an end
to procrastination.
Suppose I were to ask you if you could write a four
hundred-page novel. If you're like most people, that would
sound like an impossible task. But suppose I ask you a
different question. Suppose I ask if you can write a page and
a quarter a day for one year. Do you think you could do it?
Now the task is starting to seem more manageable. We're
breaking down the four-hundred-page book into bite-size
pieces. Even so, I suspect many people would still find the
prospect intimidating. Do you know why? Writing a page and a
quarter may not seem so bad, but you're being asked to look
ahead one whole year. When people start to do look that far
ahead, many of them automatically go into a negative mode. So
let me formulate the idea of writing a book in yet another
way. Let me break it down even more.
Suppose I was to ask you: can you fill up a page and a quarter
with words -- not for a year, not for a month, not even for a
week, but just today? Don't look any further ahead than that.
I believe most people would confidently declare that they
could accomplish that. Of course, these would be the same
people who feel totally incapable of writing a whole book.
If I said the same thing to those people tomorrow - if I told
them, I don't want you to look back, and I don't want you to
look ahead, I just want you to fill up a page and a quarter
this very day - do you think they could do it?
One day at a time. We've all heard that phrase. That's what
we're doing here. We're breaking down the time required for a
major task into one-day segments, and we're breaking down the
work involved in writing a four hundred-page book into
page-and-a-quarter increments.
Keep this up for one year, and you'll write the book.
Discipline yourself to look neither forward nor backward, and
you can accomplish things you never thought you could possibly
do. And it all begins with those three words: break it down.
My second technique for defeating procrastination is also only
three words long. The three words are: write it down. We know
how important writing is to goal setting. The writing you'll
do for beating procrastination is very similar. Instead of
focusing on the future, however, you're now going to be
writing about the present just as you experience it every day.
Instead of describing the things you want to do or the places
you want to go, you're going to describe what you actually do
with your time, and you're going to keep a written record of
the places you actually go.
In other words, you're going to keep a diary of your
activities. And you're going to be amazed by the distractions,
detours, and downright wastes of time you engage in during the
course of a day. All of these get in the way of achieving your
goals. For many people, it's almost like they planned it that
way, and maybe at some unconscious level they did. The great
thing about keeping a time diary is that it brings all this
out in the open. It forces you to see what you're actually
doing... and what you're not doing.
The time diary doesn't have to be anything elaborate. Just buy
a little spiral notebook that you can easily carry in your
pocket. When you go to lunch, when you drive across town, when
you go to the dry cleaners, when you spend some time shooting
the breeze at the copying machine, make a quick note of the
time you began the activity and the time it ends. Try to make
this notation as soon as possible; if it's inconvenient to do
it immediately, you can do it later. But you should make an
entry in your time diary at least once every thirty minutes,
and you should keep this up for at least a week.
Break it down. Write it down. These two techniques are very
straightforward. But don't let that fool you: these are
powerful and effective productivity techniques. This is how
you put an end to procrastination. This is how you get
yourself started.
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